The Sweet Sweet Taste and Sounds of Musician Kile J

Photo credits – Alex Webster

First off, for the sake of our readers, would you like to introduce yourself. 

Hi my name is Kile J I use they/them pronouns. I’m very passionate about art and culture and I’m originally from Houston, Texas. 

Square album cover. Coloured photograph with a smoke like filter applied to it. We see Kile J standing with their hands on their hips, long dark hair blowing slightly in the wind. They wear a glitzy silver/gold strappy dress with belt and big hoop earrings. The backdrop is a plain curtain.

Nice thanks for the intro. So, you have a new single ‘Honey’ coming out. Do you want to tell us a bit more about that? Where did you come up with the idea? 

I was dealing with a lot of shame that people tried to place on me, especially as I was becoming more and more comfortable being gender non conforming, and accepting my queerness. ‘Honey’ is a therapeutic song about my process of challenging the shame people placed on me and finding my own source of liberation. 

Wow, it sounds like a very personal song and what a great way to channel that energy into something creative! You have a music video for the track – how did you come up with the visual concept? 

It actually came from a conversation about my experiences with my identity with the creative team @ Luxon Films. It was completely collaborative and they helped bring my vision of telling my story about how I experienced liberation to life. 

Portrait colour headshot cropped in to show Kile J with their arms leaning on a white table. They have one arm across their body and resting on their left arm. The left arm is holding the top of a red cowboy hat. They wear long, shiny red gloves, a gold chain necklace and hoop earrings. They have a white tank top on with a bit of a print showing in the centre. The background is pastel pink with graffiti like hearts spray painted on. Kile J is staring directly at the camera, they have some facial hair, purple eyeshadow and a pink lip gloss on.
Portrait colour headshot cropped in to show Kile J with one arm on their hip and their left arm is holding the top of a red cowboy hat. They wear long, shiny red gloves, a gold chain necklace and hoop earrings. They have a white tank top on with a bit of a print in the centre with the words ‘Better off alone’ on. The tank top has long tassels on the bottom. Kile is also wearing pale blue jeans. The background is pastel pink with graffiti like hearts spray painted on. Kile J is staring directly at the camera, they have some facial hair, purple eyeshadow and a pink lip gloss on.

We love a collaborative process, it sounds like it was a lot of fun. I love the lyrics “Why you hating when you really want a taste?” so catchy. How do you come up with lyrics, is it bit-by-bit, do you have a tune in mind first then put words to it? 

I actually took quotes from journal entries and text messages to find lyrics to melodies that I create in my head. It depends on the day. Sometimes lyrics come first, sometimes melodies come first and I come up with lyrics later. It happens quite organically. 

Portrait colour zoomed in head only shot. Their face is repeated in a kaleidoscope style with a soft filter applied over the top. They have long dark hair, golden shimmer eye makeup on and a dark lip gloss. They wear thin gold big hoop earrings.

The theme of your project is to tell black queer love stories authentically; not only ones about loving others, but ones about loving yourself as well. Which we’re 100% here for. How have you been able to do this? 

The best way I possibly can, by authentically sharing my honest experiences and my truth. 

It’s amazing the work you’re making. And you’ve caught the attention of some big names too, including Vogue Teen, that’s mega! How’s that experience been for you? 

It’s been cool, but I get more excited by connecting with members of my community who can relate to the experiences that I’m sharing. When people are able to relate to and understand what I’ve been through, that’s the best feeling to me. 

Love that!

I think it’s so beautiful the way you’re able to tell and share your own experiences through your music, do you have any advice for fellow queer artists looking to kickstart their careers? 

You have to be steadfast in what you want to do and 100%go for it. A lot of people will try to tell you your dreams aren’t possible and will try to stop you before you can even get your foot through the door, but listen to your heart and don’t let them. 

Now we wouldn’t be able to do an issue interview without bringing up the theme of our issue. This issue of UNICORN is themed around PUNK. What does punk mean to you? 

I think being able to authentically express who you are in a world of make believe is the most punk thing you can do.

Here, here! 

Portrait black and white photo of Kile j. They are in a forest-like location. They are covered completely by a light, see through material. They stand underneath it pushing their hands upwards and their head is tilted upwards. They wear a necklace and earrings and a long sleeved top.
Portrait black and white photo of Kile J. They are in a forest-like location. They are wearing a long sleeved dress with a v neck and a large headband with multiple sticks coming out of it. They have their right hand across their chest as if holding their heart and their left hand up in the air in line with their shoulder. They have long dark hair that runs down their back. In the background we see sticks and pale material draping over them and further into the background is the forest.

Would you say there are any punk-like people who inspire you and your music/art? 

One of my favourite artists is an artist named Chav, I got to work with them in New York on their video for their song “Patient Zero” and I love how they incorporate hyper pop and punk into their music.

And who would you say your musical influences are?

I’m inspired by quiet storm R&B as that’s what I grew up listening to. I love vocalists like Sade, Smokey Robinson, D’angelo, Janet Jackson. Recently, I’ve been spired by African House music

Thank you so much for taking the time to chat with us. 

Kile J

They / Them | Instagram | Spotify

Square coloured headshot of Kile J. They wear pink and orange swirly eye makeup, a pink fluffy bucket hat, big gold hooped earrings and a red and white athletic zip up jacket. The background isn’t in focus but shows green grass.

Written by

Lucy Everett

She / Her | Executive Editor | Instagram - lucyev28
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